Definition of how simple thoughts are

Usually when we think that we want something, atleast at this age i.e. 23, the first thing that comes in mind is, somebody who can stay with us for quite some time.

But how to define that someone:
I got this definition, at true in many respects....

someone like the MOON....
so simple yet so attractive.....
so enlightining yet so cool.....
so moving yet so still....
so quiet yet so popular.....
so romantic yet so SINGLE!!!!

Think about this, everybody has similar thoughts in mind. This are the ideal characteristics. And who gets the ideal, nobody. Still, life is fun without everything also.. :)

Gotra, what is that???

I went to a temple as usual, but the unusual thing this time was, he asked me about my gotra. Heard that word earlier but never paid attention, in fact i never paid attention to religion and caste as well. Didn't knew about caste and all till 10th.

I want to write more on this, so what i will do is copy paste some matter from:
http://www.rediff.com/news/2004/nov/03akd.htm

The matter is:
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Some villagers decreed that a married couple are siblings only because they hail from the same gotra! And they ordered that a. the woman abort her foetus since she is not married to her husband, and b. give up some land that she claims to have inherited.

The latter demand clearly proves the incredibly mercenary nature of this panchayat that literally forced the couple, on fear of social boycott, mayhem or even death, to obey its diktat.

It needs to be asked what on earth the government is doing that it can allow this bunch of mercenaries to target an innocent couple.

This is landgrabbing at its worst, naked robbery under the guise of custom or tradition.

To hell with such tradition if its only purpose is to make the strong stronger against the weak, if their purpose is to allow some cruel people to gang up against people for some obscurantist reason to wreak havoc in people's lives.

India is a trillion times better off without such Jurassic age laws.

And what is this gotra business? What is a gotra? A claimed mythological descent from a rishi, who probably never existed except in the imagination of those who had nothing better to do but dream up such lineal claims only to pump up their self importance. Gotra claims are as ludicrous as Pakistani nuclear smuggler A Q Khan, claming that he was a lineal descendant of Mahmud of Ghazni!

Since such claims are impossible to prove or disprove, one really loses nothing by making them. Which is also why any educated person takes them with a platter of salt. Similarly, a gotra is nothing more than a fanciful claim: it can be amusing (like how we all find astrology amusing) but no one can or should take it seriously. And for some village elders to decide that because of a common gotra, a couple cannot marry and are siblings is nonsense at its worst.
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I enquired from quite a lot of people around. People say, everyone is descendant of some rishi which is known by the birth time. But doing something just on the basis of Gotra is not foolish but superstitious. Feeling that if we don't do something as per the customs and traditions, then something bad will happen.
The basis of classification for Gotra is different for different castes. It is rishis in Brahmins , while it is different in other caste in Hindu religion. Usually Brahmins are too adamant on working as per Gotra, ignoring all other facts.
But, i really respect Hindu religion and for me it is more scientific that just following of tradition. Lot of facts, if seen from the scientific point of view seem logical, but are illogical, if we consider it just as a tradition.
So, Gotra, must be having a scientific angle to it, still unknown to me. I really feel that somewhere, somebody must have given scientific explanation to this. Let's wait for comments on this... !!!!!!!

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Some details on Sagothra Vivaha. ( I am not an expert. These are my openion, based on my exploration over times).

As they say, history has to be read in the past.

There are 22 main gothras and including sub gothras the total may go up to 90 gothras, shared by Brahmin, Kshatriya & Vaishyas.

All these Gohtras have originated from the name of the ancestor or Guru. All these saints were spread across historic india (from Egypt to China).

Each Guru had an Ashram(Most of the time on bank of a River) and people around the areas use to be referred wrt the Guru or Gothra.

Now coming to sagothra vivaha.

As per geeta/vedanta, man is the only jeev with uncontrolled carnal desires or Kama. All other animals and trees have definite mating periods.

Kama is the first of arishadvarga and leads to krodha, lobha, moha,mada & Matsara.

They never wanted the kama to spoil the serenity of the Ashrama and inhabitants. Also, they wanted to establish harmony with the other Ashrams. So they prohibited the sagotra vivaha.

Science encourages the marriges with most contrasting genetics. If you look at, in olden days, these group of people had differrent genetics and appearance. Ex : Nagas from eastern states with more of chinese look. South indians with more of dark texture, where as north indians with fair complexion. Also, Yavans of persia. Gandhars from todyays Afghanistan, Kashmiris and Nepalese so on and so fourth.

As per Manusmriti, the best and only form of Vivaha for brahmin's is Deva vivaha. i.e

1) The marriage acceptable to parents (both side), elders and Guru's.
2) Without any matreialistic gains (So, no dowry).
3) for the benefit of individuals, for social and spiritual benefits.

Please follow the same. If you feel you can have sagotra vivaha and satisfy the above rules, you can proceed.

R u bent on sagothra vivaha? If so, why?. Just to override the rules? or for some materialistic gains? or driven by lust?.

However, not advisable.

Woh haseen din college ke

My friend sent me the coolest and the most remembering poem.
This poem is dedicated to college life which every engineer goes through.
It is about those 4 years which ultimately prove to be the best days in life.

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raah dekhi thi is din ki kabse
aage ke sapne saja rakhe the naajane kab se

bade utavle the yahaan se jaane ko
zindagi ka agla padaav paane ko

par naa jane kyon ..dil mein aaj kuch aur aata hai
waqt ko rokne ka jee chahta hai

jin baton ko lekar rote the
aaj un par hansi aati hai
na jaane kyon aaj un palon ki yaad bahut aati hai

kaha kart tha ..badi mushkil se chaar saal seh gaya
par aaj kyon lagta hai ki kuch peeche reh gaya

kahi ankahi hazaaron batein reh gayi
na bhoolne wali kuch yaadein reh gayi

meri taang ab kaun kheencha karega
sirf mera sir khane kaun mera peecha karega

jahaan 2000 ka hisaab nahin wahaan 2 rupay ke liye kaun ladega
kaun raat bhar saath jag kar padega

KAUN MERA lunch mujse pooche bina khayega
kaun mere naye naye naam banayega

mein ab bina matlab kis se ladoonga
bina topic ke kisse faalto baat karoonga

kaun fail hone par dilasa dilayega
kaun galti se number aane par gaaliyaan sunayega

buddy's mein coffee kis ke saath piyoonga
wo haseen pal ab kis ke saath jiyoonga

aise dost kahaan milenge
jo khai mein bhi dhakka de aayein
par fir tumhein bachane khud bhi kood jayein

meri ghazlon se pareshaan kaun hoga
kabhi muje kisi ladki se baat karte dekh hairaan kaun hoga

kaun kahega chadhe tere joke pe hansi nahin aai
kaun peeche se bula ke kahega..aage dekh bhai

carrom mein kiske saath kheloonga
kis ke saath boring lectures jheloonga

professors ke PJ par RAKSHAS ki tarah kaun hansega
"pugai mein haarne wale ki treat"..is chakkar mein ab kaun fansega

mere certificates ko raddi kehne ki himmat kaun karega
bina dare sachi raay dene ki himmat kaun karega

stage par ab kis ke saath jaoonga
juniors ko faltoo ke lectures kaise sunaonga

achanak bin matlab ke kisi ko bhi dekh kar paglon ki tarah hansna
na jaane ye fir kab hoga
keh do doston ye dobaara sab hoga

doston ke liye professor se kab lad payenge
kya hum ye fir kar payenge

raat ko 2 baje paranthe khane kaun jayega
3 gilaas lassi peene ki shart kaun lagayega

kaun muje mere kabiliyat par bharosa dilayega
aur jyada hawa mein udne par zameen pe layega

meri khushi mein sach mein khush kaun hoga
mere gam mein muj se jyada dukhi kaun hoga

meri ye kavita kaun padega
kaun ise sach mein samjega

bahut kuch likhna abhi baaki hai
kuch saath shayad baaki hai

bas ek baat se dar lagta hai doston
hum anjnabi na ban jayein doston

zindagi ke rangon mein dosti kar rang feeka na pad jaye
kahin aisa na ho doosre rishton ki bheed mein dosti dum tod jayye

zindagi mein milne ki fariyaad karte rehna
agar na mil sakein to kam se kam yaad karte rehna

chahe jitna hanslo aaj mujh par
mein bura nahi manooga
is hansi ko apne dil mein basa loonga
aur jab yaad aayegi tumhari
yahi hansi lekar thoda muskura loonga

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Me a Taurus

Today i discovered that i am true taurus person:
The 10 qualities and completely embedded in me:

10. One word - stubborn!
9. Your Motto: Better to fight than switch.
8. You love practical shoes.
7. We always konw what you'll do.
6. You work too hard.
5. You've never won the "tactful" award.
4. You'll eat anything.
3. Giving up is a foreign concept.
2. You're oh so romantic.
The #1 REASON YOU ARE A TAURUS IS....
YOU WERE BORN UNDER THE SIGN OF THE BULL !!!!!

Is Tweety male or female???

Is Tweety male or female???

Tweety is male.

Tweety as a male. He may have long eyelashes and a rather
high-pitched voice, but the same is true of Tom Selleck,
who is definitely a fella. ;-)

Tweety is definitely a boy. He was said to be modeled after
a baby picture [of] his creator Robert Clampett

This is based on
"Bad Ol' Putty Tat" (Freleng, 1949), in which Sylvester manages
to temporarily lure Tweety with a fake female canary (actually,
one of his fingers with a hat and painted-on eyes). This, along
with Tweety's sailor-boy hat he wears in this cartoon, is an
indication that, at the very least for the purposes of this
particular cartoon, he was male.

And, hey, wasn't there a cartoon where Tweety actually fell in love
with a female bird which was actually Sylvester's claw dressed up?

Apart from the info mentioned above, there is always the
ornithological argument. Male canaries sing; female canaries do not.
Assuming Tweety to be a canary, the fact that he sings is a
good indication that he's male.

http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview?id=375169

Nikla hu tujhe dhoondnay

निकला हु तुझे ढूंढने 

तेरे घर का पता मालूम होना, ज़रूरी नहीं,
तेरी  सांसों की महक ही काफी है, तुझे ढूंढने  के लिए


निकला घर से सिर्फ तेरा ख्याल लिए,
एक आरज़ू तुझसे मिलने की,

रह भी मालूम नहीं,
बस तेरी खुशबु ही काफी है तुझे ढूंढने के लिए


आरज़ू मुकम्मल हो, ये ज़रूरी नहीं,
एहसास से भी, काम चला लेगे हम,
वो ख्याल, मंज़िल से ज़यादा कीमती है
इस छोटी सी चाह की खबर है तुझे ढूंढने के लिए
तेरी खुशबु काफी है तुझे ढूंढने  के लिए

तुझसे रूबरू होकर क्या हाल होगे
उन फूलों  का महकना भी बेकार होगा
उन तीज साँसों का चलना भी बेशुमार होगा
चलते चलते इस ख्याल से वाक़िफ़ हु

बस तेरी खुशबु से तुझे  ढूंढने की कोशिश कर रहा हु

Jeevan mei prem karna hai mujhe ...

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door kisi samundar kinaray
hatoo mei haat leekar baithna hai mujhe
akash mei taaray dekhtay
bhavish ki kalpana karni hai mujhe
jeevan mei prem karna hai mujhe...

mere baahomei sir rakhkar
usko sootay dekhna hai mujhe
uskay shant chehray ki taraf dekhkar
khud hi khud mei hasna hai mujhe
jeevan mei prem karna hai mujhe...

ussay thodi thitholi karkay
usko ghusay say laal karna hai mujhe
uskay aasuoko pochtay pochtay jaldi se bahoo mei bhar leena hai mujhe
jeevan mei prem karna hai mujhe...

jeevanka uska laksh
uskay saath chadhna hai mujhe
cooti par pauchtay mere saath chalnay ki khushi
uski aakho se vyakt hotay dekhna hai mujhe
jeevan mei prem karna hai mujhe...

jab woh mujhsay door jaanay lagay
virah ki kalpana se avagat hona hai mujhe
woh na honay ka dard
aakho se vyakat karna hai mujhe
jeevan mei prem karna hai mujhe...

uskay saath mera jeevan
poorna roop se jeena hai mujhe
phir say janam uskay liye
uska chehra dekhkar hi jeena hai mujhe
jeevan mei prem karna hai mujhe...

Defining myself in C and C++

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/* Defining myself in C */
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# include "Knowledge_infinite"

#define LOVE "noTime"
#define WORK "allTime"
#define LIFE "wantToBeUnique"
#define DREAM "toMakeASpaceShip"

#define HAPPINESS "AlwaysThereForYou"

int pank_main()
{
PankDataType DateOfBirth = 26/04/83;

if ( Day == Date of Birth)
{
Day = 0; Day++;
}

while( ON_earth)
{

//1.
feel_happy_about_yourself( Day++);

//2.
Remember_the_goal_to_achieve( Me);

//3.
Think( whoAllNeededToAchieveGoal);


for( LIFE) // Because, life is definite
{
//1.
WorkTowardsAchievingGoal( DREAM, time);

//2.
DontHurtAnyone( PeopleAround);

//3.
AlwaysBeThereWith_A_Smile( me, All);
}
}

return HAPPINESS;
}


feel_happy_about_youself()
{
//1.
prayToGod( GiveEveryoneHappiness);

//2.
makePeopleRealize ( goals);

//3.
FeelGood( me);
}



///////////////////////////////////////////////////////
/// Definition in C++
///////////////////////////////////////////////////////

class Me
{
protected:
Me()
{
initialize_mind = INFINITE;
}
Me( int, char *luckiestDay, char *wish);


private:
char allFeatures(*)[60];
};

int main( int argc, char **argv)
{
int second;
int noOfThoughts = INFINITE;

Me Pank = new ( noOfThoughts * INFINITE, "26 April 1983", "Want's to climb Sky");

for( int years = 0; years <= TILL_I_DIE; years++)
think_of_invention( second);

}

Me, I and Myself, always there for a friend.

Friends, nowadays orkut is really catching up.
While i was roaming around and was peeping through all my colleagues' desks, i found that everyone is using orkut. It doesn't come as a surprise to me because, really we are somehow lagging in social aspect. Specially people who stay away from home, and who like to meet quite a number of people spend quite a lot of time on this site.
And i would say almost everyone has found their lost friends, beginning right from school days to college days, to grads, and post-grads.
Gone are the days, when two uncles used to meet in some 50's and will say, "man it is quite a time almost 30 years, we haven't met". I agree same scenario may exist today as well but the factor would be that earlier, those two friends were not in contact with each other and didn't knew each other about domain of concern but now with these kinds of web services, people are atleast connected.
God knows, till what time this will continue because, like "orkut", someone else might again come up with different with some other idea.

One other happening nowadays is the frequency with which different versions of operating systems, softwares are coming up. Gone are the days, when Linux 1.0 came in one year and it took almost more than 2 years to come up with 2.0 version. Same is the case with Windows. Win95, Win98, Win2000, winnt, winxp(2002) release and list goes on with all latest updates coming on fly, getting installed automatically.
Seems, we are heading in right direction but the progress in some other direction.

I discussed with one of my friends about we were to think about living in space , what would it need. He said, the scientific temprament to think about physics, about space and try to reach the impossible. There is really big question on why our best talent is in IIT, IIM, and not doing Phd in Physics.
Really we have become not little but too much selfish in terms of gains we want.

Adancements apart, life is going in really different way, God knows where it will end...........

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My friend was always complaining why i don't write testimonial to it. This was my way of writing a testimonial...
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hey orkut please give me atleast 100000000 google lines to write about this person. I don't really know much about the vastness of this oceanic personality but know just as much as a bowl of water.
Oh keyboard, write with the speed with i can think about this person so that i do not miss any of keypoint.
Oh my hand, don't stop typing because my mind doesn't want to stop thinking about this person, so should you not stop typing.
Oh my eyes, stay intact without flicker so that i don't miss a single character i may miss. Be open till i complete atleast some small facts.
Oh my legs, don't give up the posture of sitting, because, you are of very very less importance than the person for whom i am writing.
Oh Microsoft Notepad, please allow me store this file which has contents about a very important person.
Oh my Intel's PC, give enough space to this file because, it has such an important contents.
Oh the wind, come like a sweet breeze so that i can get all those thoughts which i have ever thought about this person.
Oh the Rose, keep that innocent look till i complete this write up about that special person.
Oh my God, who is looking and is observing me while i am writing this fact, help to write all truth about this special person.
Oh My mind, convienience me that i am writing all truth about my friend, because, my friend is so special to me.
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Diagram

Remembering happy days

I don't know why i remember those days, which will not be there again.
I don't know why i remember those happy days, where every day was pleasant surprise.
Why i remember those days, when friends were more than friends.
Why i remember those days, when every day was to celebrate and enjoy every moment of life
Why i remember those days, when every occasion was birthday
when tears flew down the cheeks for the simplest of gestures.
I really don't know why i remember those Days

I Myself and me

kavi bhi nahi,
gayak bhi nahi,
nayak bhi nahi,
chust bhi nahi,
durust bhi nahi,
ek khali sa dimag hai jo kuch kuch karta rahata hai,
kuch vicharo se nirantar bhara rahata hai,
ek kalpana hai jo ki sach honay ka naam nahi leeti,
ek aakaansha hai jisay puray honay mei kai saal hai,
aaj jo kuch hai to woh mera dost hai, mera aaj, mera aastik astitvav.

It's one year since i am blogging !!!

I don't believe this,,,,,
It's one year since i am blogging !!!

Though the number of blogs i have written don't really tell that i am blogging since 1 year. But really, i have changed a lot in this one year.
Got a lot of maturity in thoughts and really have fought adverse battles and was always the Gladiator in each and every battle. Thanks to God, Actually can't say thanks, because, what we are is HIM only. As all life forms come from and HIM and go to HIM, so no need to thank GOD. He is who is doing things.

Last year, at this moment, i was struggling to get some things right. Right from from my profession to family, everything. But, i don't know, i have lost that thought of controlling things as they are reflexively controlled without extra effort.

I had seen only two types of people,
one, who do not do anything and wants things to be done without their intervention, second, who did everything and wanted their intervention in everything.
This year, i saw the third kind, people who did everything and didn't took the credit.

During this year, i have met champions of champions, people with great attitude and gratitude, people with estacy and empathy, people with thoughts and creative ideas, people who can steal the ideas and heal the burns.
Recently, i am looking at a different kind of person i.e. ME. Too selfish about thinking about myself, but just can't force myself not think about me.

Where are Bugs?

The story of a software tester !!!!!!!!


Bugs, May Lord,
Saaray C constructs ki khaak chaani,
Milay to kya, sirf doo bug.

Bug, bugs, bugs !!!!!
Saaray options try karnay ke baad, miltay hai to kya, sirf doo bug !!!!!

Kya yeh meri agyanta hai, ya mera bhram ??

Kya doo bugs bahot hai, is testing to paripurna karnay ke liye ??

Kya testing ka arth sirf hai, bugs dhundna ??

Kya reporting koi ahmiyat nahi rakhti?

Jab upar se bhagwan dekhta honga, to kya sochta honga,
Mainay diya logo ko dimaag, inhonay banayaya tools,

Aur milay to kya,
SIRF BUGS !!!!!

Kuch paanay ki aasha

har jaata hua din is baat ko puch raha hai, ki
aaj kya kia, aaj kya paya, aaj kya khoya.
khonay ke liye kya hai
paanay ke liye kya hai.
phir bhi bahot kuch paanay ki aasha rakhta hu

ek nazar jab peche palat kar dekhta hu
lagta hai kaha se niklay thay kaha pauch gaye
dishaheen to nahi hai hu, parantu,
sarvottam disha bhi to nahi hai
phir bhi bahot kuch paanay ki aasha rakhta hu....

aagay kay safar mei kuch shubh, kuch aachay pal ki abhilaasha karta hu
par in akanshao mei shayad khud ko hi na bhulaa baithu
kahi bhul na jaau, meray jeevan ka arth kya hai , mera astitva kya hai,
kyunki in sawalo ko jaanay ki khauish rakhta hu.
phir bhi bahot kuch paanay ki aasha rakhta hu....

apni seemao ko ladhnay ki shakti rakhta hu
un uchaiyoo se upar jaanay ki aasha rakhta hu,
jaha shayad hi koi gaya ho, lekin jayada sochta rahata hu
phir bhi bahot kuch paanay ki aasha rakhta hu....

Pata nahi jeevan ki is rah par kitnay log milay, aur aagay kitnay milengay
har shaks se milkar kuch sikhnay ki ichha rakhta hu
Utna akalmand to nahi ki sab jaan lu, saaray sawalo ka hal dhund lu
phir bhi bahot kuch paanay ki aasha rakhta hu....

Zindagi ka har pal shayad is hi tarah, na beet jaaye
Anth mei na kuch paa saku
aur bahot kho jaau, aisa sochta hu.
phir bhi bahot kuch paanay ki aasha rakhta hu....

A trial on writing some shayari

khud ka hi ek aashiya bana baithay bheed se alag,
jaaha se door apna ek kaarwa bana baithay

baithay baithay yeh hi soch rahe thay ki
kaash is aashnay mei kuch phool hotay, kuch kaatay hotay

Ek khushi ki talaash mei, dosto ki talaash ki
Ek khushi ki talaash mei, apno se mulaqat ki

Ab khuda se ek aftab ki khauish kar baithay.